Choosing to Rise: Bryan Neely on Resilience, Faith, and Becoming Who You Were Created to Be

Choosing to Rise: Bryan Neely on Resilience, Faith, and Becoming Who You Were Created to Be

Duration: 00:26:21

In this episode of The Tessa Tubbs Podcast, Tessa sits down with Bryan Neely for a powerful conversation on resilience, faith, identity, and the quiet strength it takes to keep rising when life does not unfold the way you imagined.

Bryan is the owner of Billy Goat Coffee Cafe, a Krav Maga instructor, Young Life Ministry leader, ultra marathoner, military funeral honors officer, TEDx speaker, and author of Embrace Your Roar: A Call to Stop Comparing, Start Rising, and Step Into the Life You Were Created For. His story is marked by deep faith, personal grief, military transition, rejection, endurance, and a commitment to turning obstacles into opportunities for growth and service.

Together, Tessa and Bryan explore what it means to hit rock bottom with your “rock” in the right place, how faith and community can help remind you who you are, and why rising is not always dramatic. Often, it is one honest decision repeated over time.

Bryan shares how self-talk, doing hard things, surrounding yourself with the right people, and staying connected to purpose have helped him move through breaking points and become a stronger, more grounded version of himself.

This episode is for anyone walking through hardship, rebuilding after disappointment, or learning how to lead themselves with courage, humility, and intention.

Listen in for a conversation on self-leadership, resilience, emotional endurance, faith, personal growth, and choosing to rise into who you are becoming.

For more on Bryan check out his links:

Business:

BILLY GOAT COFFEE CAFE

Books:

Embrace Your Roarrr: The Key To Rising Up In Everything You Do

Mile 17 Devotional: Where Breaking Points Become Breakthroughs

Socials:

Instagram

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LinkedIn

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